Being a guy is pretty awesome. This is a totally subjective reasoning, but let’s not get stuck there. We’ve got a list for you that we think every man should take really seriously. If you can shout a resounding ‘I can do that!’ for each one, you’re a breed set apart! If not, don’t fear, as with most things, a bit of time, the right guidance and a ‘can do’ attitude, and you’ll have it in the bag! Here’s our list of the 3 things every guy should know how to do.
1. Give a proper high 5. Look, it doesn’t matter what country you call home; the ‘high 5’ is starting to appreciate international attention, and rightly so. Executed correctly, the sound of your hand smashing into a bro’s, and the sheer thrill you feel at the moment that deserved it (your team scores, or you got a 2 for 1 special at the burger shop) makes it by far our number 1. To ensure you don’t miss your buddy’s hand completely, or even worse, just clip a part of his hand; step confidently into the the moment with your hand held high, and move in for the high 5, keeping your eyes firmly fixed on your buddy’s elbow. Through the science of coordination and body positioning, you should land a ear-splitting, palm-numbing high 5, that neither man would admit hurt; even just a little!
2. Hold a baby. Most men just cower at the idea of having to hold a tiny drooling baby, and most guys just point blank refuse. Some will try to take hold of the little cutie with hunched shoulders and a look on their faces like they’ve just eaten a lemon. This is a fact, so look out for it next time. No mother would want someone looking so sheepish, to hold their bundle of joy. But if it’s your own new addition; there’s even more reason to do it like a pro. We got some help from our friends at www.birth.com.au
3. Say ‘I LOVE YOU’. If you thought the 3 words every woman wants to hear are ‘chocolate isn’t fattening’, you’re very much mistaken. And it’s not just your special lady that needs to know how you really feel about her. There are your kids (if you have them), your parents (it doesn’t matter how old you are!), your siblings, your grandparents, and probably your poor cat as well. Tell them how great they make you feel and don’t hold back in expressing your heart for them. A real man says ‘I love you’ expecting nothing in return. Nothing. I’m assuming you’re getting your phone out right now to call someone. Your mom? Good!
Now this list of ours is short, but we’re starting slowly, to make sure you get these first 3 sorted. Once you’re a high-fiving, baby-holder, not afraid to get all emotional, then we’ll add more to our list. Get going, get practicing, and pass on what you have learnt. The Bro Code is all about empowering the other guys out there as well, so don’t be stingy with those new skills.