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Secrets To A Happy Life

We all want to be happy, healthy and full of energy, but how do we achieve such an out of this world goal? It seems so far fetched, like some kind of science fiction movie.  In a recent blog I wrote called “Joy can not be contained”, I speak about the difference between joy and happiness.

Happiness and the well-being feeling is something we all need, especially in the hustle and bustle of this life.  If you’re anything like me and have several fingers in several pies, it can be quite demanding, and you will need to find ways to relax and survive the potential chaos around you.

Here are my secrets to a happy life:

  1. Pray often
  2. Be grateful
  3. Smile, even when it’s hard
  4. Be kind to others
  5. Be uniquely you, and nothing less!
  6. Have fun, childlike fun
  7. Sleep and rest
  8. Take frequent short breaks and go outside
  9. Pick up a healthy hobby
  10. Walk for at least 10 minutes a day
  11. Eat enough healthy meals and snacks daily
  12. Speak to or visit a friend or family member
  13. Thank God at the end of every day

Your happy list might look very different from mine, but these are things I try doing on a daily basis – I find they help me to be a happier and friendlier person.

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What Taylor Swift’s Appeal Says About the Church

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Taylor Swift is having a moment.

Ever since the release of her pop crossover album 1989, the country-phenom turned top-40 dominator has become an inescapable cultural fixture.

The album is one of the most commercially successfully LPs in decades, selling nearly 9 million copies globally, topping charts around the world and garnering hundreds of millions of plays on YouTube. Even user-made mash-ups have become hits.

What makes 1989 different is that beyond making lots of money, it’s a weirdly culturally unifying force.

T-Swift’s “squad” of collaborators includes everyone from Kendrick Lamar—arguably hip-hop’s most important artist—and pop star Ellie Goulding, to Paramore frontwoman Hayley Williams and actress Lena Dunham (all of whom were among the celebrities who appeared in the video for 1989 single “Bad Blood”). Swift claims old fans who love her for her early country work and new ones who buy her pop singles. The album features producing credits for both indie rock darling Jack Antonoff (Steel Train, Fun., Bleachers), as well as pop-music guru Ryan Tedder (the OneRepublic singer who has produced music for pop stars including Beyoncé, Kelly Clarkson, Jordin Sparks, One Direction and Maroon 5).

1989 is the increasingly unique pop album that’s both been almost universally praised by fellow artists and critics and been accessible to even casual music fans.

But there’s something else at play with what Taylor Swift’s appeal says about the church…

The Cultural Moment

1989 is a great album, and its singles are pretty great songs. But with pop music, the music is only a small part of what makes an album. In many respects, pop music is as much about image as artistry. It’s as much about an underlying idea as it is about actual lyrics.

Elvis was iconic only in part because of his music. He represented a shifting cultural mood as much as he did a genre. The Beatles’ music holds up, but so does their style. Michael Jackson was a musical genius, but there are lots of musical geniuses; there’s only one King of Pop. Beyoncé is a hit-maker, but it’s her image of self-empowerment that has helped make her a superstar.

There’s a famous quote from philosopher Joseph de Maistre that says, “Every nation gets the government it deserves.” You could make the same case for music: Every culture gets the pop stars it ultimately deserves. Culture helps create the pop stars it wants to follow.

Pop stars are more than just the sum of their songs; their success is partly due to what their success represents.

Elvis was about the rise of youth culture, and the loosening of Puritan values. The Beatles were about the cultural expansion and the embrace of new ideas. Michael Jackson transcended racial barriers. Beyoncé is a self-made female mogul, who has helped embody the cool confidence of culture shifters. Across any pop music era (the rise of grunge, hip-hop, glam-rock, Motown, etc.), trends are reflective of not only cultural values—but of cultural voids. There’s a tendency for music fans to use artists to help vocalize and embody things they want to see in culture.

Looking at what the pop star of the moment—who, in this case, just happens to be a Nashville singer with a multi-platinum pop album—represents, not only helps show us something about culture’s collective tastes. It can also be a look at the void it’s looking to fill. It’s a void the Church also needs to respond to.

The Swift Appeal

One of the things that has made the rise of Taylor Swift so interesting is just how proactively uninteresting she tends to be—at least in the shock-value, tabloid sort of way. Sure, she writes about personal relationship drama, but it’s always in a veiled, mostly innocent way. She’s more known for squashing beefs than starting them. In the case of a Twitter dustup with Nicki Minaj, she was downright apologetic.

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The most recent VMAs were a perfect example. In an evening that featured performances, outfits and appearances that repeatedly attempted to out-shock each other, Taylor Swift’s screen-time was mostly tame and gracious.

For better or worse, Taylor Swift is safe. Even though 1989 was a creative risk, it was a highly calculated one. (The campaign surrounding its release literally involved her move from Nashville to New York.) Whether carefully cultivated or authentic (or both), Taylor Swift’s image is predicated on her niceness to fans, her love of “squad” friendliness, her innocent romances and her graciousness toward other artists.

It’s a brand our culture has embraced, because it’s one our culture wanted.

What the Church Can Learn

Church planters, theologians and evangelists are constantly looking for ways to “reach” culture and relate to the needs of the collective masses. The appeal of Taylor Swift provides a look at just that.

And what makes that kind of image—a safe, friendly, gracious one—so noteworthy is that it seems to directly contradict the way so many Christians are perceived (at least in the media). A look at modern headlines involving Christians mostly focus on the most divisive issues—from anti-gay marriage activists and undercover stings to infighting pastors, social media gangs playing theology police and scandal-ridden leaders. The message that is often perpetuated flies in the face of what culture seems to be gravitating toward.

In a time when so many Christians and Christian leaders take a defensive, combative tone (especially in this political season), culture finds its next pop star in a girl-next-door who seems to have little interest in salaciousness, edginess or picking fights. Swift’s image is about uniting—stylistically and squad-listically—not dividing.

Scripture teaches that Christians should observe certain moral rules and followers of Christ should stand up for the victims of injustice. But if the collective image of the Church becomes more known for what we’re against than what we’re for, we risk isolating a culture that’s interested in unity. There are certainly causes that are worth fighting for and evils that need to be exposed. But there are also people who need to know what it’s like to be loved despite their failings, to get a second chance and experience what grace looks like.

Just like late-night TV’s revolution shows how culture’s taste for cynicism is souring, Taylor Swift’s massive appeal is evidence that popular culture is looking for a unifying tone to counter the absence of just plain niceness in our discourse.

In some circles, there’s been a refrain that Jesus wasn’t overly concerned with being “nice.” It’s true that there’s a difference between niceness and love, but that doesn’t mean they are mutually exclusive. Yes, Jesus preached truth—even when the message was difficult for some people to hear. But He also carried Himself in a way that drew large crowds, endeared Himself to masses and that made people want to leave everything behind and follow Him. He treated people with dignity and respect. He didn’t try to further divide people and their enemies. He tried to bring them together.

The rise of a pop star like Taylor Swift shows that at least some part of culture finds the idea of unity and niceness appealing in times when so many things are so divided.

Haters are always gonna hate, but the Church shouldn’t be among them.

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When Things Don’t Make Sense

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I was chatting to a friend of mine recently and she was telling me about her experiences growing up, especially when it came to church.  When things don’t make sense in your life, perhaps you need to start asking the right questions?

This is what she had to say…

“When I was younger, I hated going to Church, well for the most part. I didn’t understand why I had to be among a bunch of people who seemed to put on performances as quick as they put on their Sunday best. Mind you, I also did my fair share of smiling and waving as was required by my parents to avoid trouble at all costs. Jesus seemed all too unreal to me and people who spoke about how they had met Him seemed all too pretentious. People’s testimonies undid it for me, they just seemed too out of this world to believe.

I never felt the goose bumps, saw no flashing light, heard no booming voice. I never had encounters with glowing angels in white linen, saw no gold dust falling from the sky, neither did I hear heaven’s choirs serenading me at night as others testified. In fact, the testimonies just made me feel worse and like I wasn’t good enough, holy enough, trying hard enough, not paying enough attention to God’s voice.

It wasn’t until I began to ask God to show me who He was and who this Jesus man was to me, that things started making sense.

I was reminded of that period in my life as I watched this video:

Ex-Hezbollah Iranian Muslim Saw Jesus and Jesus Said Who He Was

Many of us have wondered if this Jesus story adds up, after all it seems too good to be true right? How can a man be God and God be a mere man? How can a man die for all mankind and claim to be the only bridge to reuniting man with God…the God of the universe? So many questions to make your head spin, yet hardly ever getting answers that make complete sense.”

Like the man in the video, we all have questions that desperately need answers. More often than not, asking people does not provide the answers we need.  As the video says, the testimony is his own testimony, to show you what God can do, but you need to go on your own journey, to discover the beauty of God for yourself. After all, who can best answer questions about God than God Himself?

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A Mighty Girl – The Kindling Cracker

When Ayla Hutchinson was 13 years old, she saw her mother cut her finger with a hatchet while splitting kindling and became determined to find a safer way to cut firewood. This Mighty Girl from Taranaki, New Zealand took on that challenge as a science fair project — the result was the Kindling Cracker, a cast iron tool that allows people to split kindling quickly and safely. Now, the 15-year-old entrepreneur is not only doing brisk business in her home country, she’s bringing her invention to a major new market after she recently signed a distribution deal with a leading American tool company, Northern Tools and Equipment!

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After Ayla came up with the initial design of the Kindling Cracker for her 8th grade science fair project, her father, Vaughn Hutchinson, helped her build the original prototype. She had such a positive response to her school project that she decided to develop the idea further, stating that “it took a few months or so to get it to the final product.” The cast-iron tool uses a built-in axe blade and a safety cage to prevent injuries; just put the wood into the cage and hit it with a hammer to split perfect kindling. Two years later, Ayla estimates that there are tens of thousands of Kindling Crackers in use across New Zealand.

The Kindling Cracker started winning awards, including earning Ayla the Regional Finalist Award at last year’s International Google Science Fair. Then, she heard from Ryan Kotula, the owner of Northern Tool, who was intrigued by the simplicity of Ayla’s design and wanted rights to distribute it in the United States. The first shipment of 22 tons of Kindling Crackers was shipped out this summer. This month, Ayla and her family also made a trip to Minnesota, where Northern Tools and Equipment is headquartered, to demonstrate the cracker at the State Fair.

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While her company’s growth is exciting, Ayla says that one of her favorite parts of her invention’s success is that it’s “making a really positive impact in many people’s lives… It makes it easier and safer for everyone to cut kindling which is great to have when you fire up a wood fire, pizza oven, brazier etc. It also gives people with disabilities or physical impairments the freedom to cut their own kindling again.” Earlier this year, she and her father drove five hours to deliver a Kindling Cracker to an elderly widow who uses wood to heat her home. “I had heard she needed one,’’ said Ayla. “We sorted out a place for it to sit. She served tea and cookies. And now she doesn’t have to beg the neighbors to cut kindling. It was fun. ”

 

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Don’t Quit!

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When I was in primary school, I stumbled upon an amazing poem – it carried me through many tough seasons throughout my life.  It served as a constant reminder that days will get dark, life will get difficult, things won’t always go according to your plan; but in those though times the secret is to never quit, DON’T QUIT!

 

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I admire people who have the courage to keep getting up when they fall down.   Think of all the scientific breakthroughs we’ve experienced over the past 100 years.  Now imagine if those scientists quit after the first few failed attempts?  Imagine how limited our medicine would be if chemists and scientists never perused ideas and concepts…

So, who are you?  And what hopes and dreams  do you carry in your heart?  Will you quit after the first attempt, or will you get up again and try harder, try smarter?  What about that bad habit you’re trying to kick, are you just going to give in the next time temptation comes along, or will you try even harder?

If you fall, the only thing to do is to get up, and try again. Whatever you do, don’t quit!

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Justin Bieber VS Beat Questlove in a Drum Off

Justin Bieber VS Beat Questlove in a drumm off when he visited The Tonight Show recently, and for the second time, went one-on-one with Questlove in a drum battle.

As far as drum-offs go, this one is pretty impressive. Maybe Quest was just being nice to the show guest, but Biebs seems to have handily won this round.

Credit//Edited:  Relevant Magazine

When Jesus Say Yes

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When Jesus say yes nobody can say no!

When I first heard the song from Michelle Williams, I fell in love with the beat, the vibe, the style and feel of the song.  The poor use of English caused me to short-circuit slightly, but I eventually moved passed it.

What I appreciate most about the song is the message it carries. When God promises something, He will always see it through, to the very end.  God will not change His mind regarding you and His best interests for your life.  He is not moved by people’s desires and opinions about you, He will simply do what’s best for you, according to His wisdom.  Let’s also not forget that God is not going to buckle under the pressure you place on Him to grant you your desires just because they suit you better.

I’m not worried ’bout a thing
‘Cause I know You are guiding me
Where You lead me, Lord, I will go
I have no fear ’cause I know Who’s in control…

There is no fear in tomorrow –  the unknown, the uncertainty, because I know Who’s in control.  God keeps me and my very complex ‘world’ in the palm of His hand and He guides me according to His amazing wisdom.

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The Seasons Of Life

As the seasons change from winter to spring to summer to autumn, so we go through similar changes in our lives. There comes a point in a person’s life when you need to move on and let go of a season that has already passed. Experience has taught me that the longer you hold on to a season, be it bad or sour relationship, occupation or possession, the more frustration will well up within. The remedy is to simply let go and trust God to direct your steps in every area of your life. Like winter and summer, not all situations are permanent and often change is inevitable.

We have to be good custodians of everything God has entrusted us with. That also includes managing well the seasonal changes, because try as you may, there is no way of stretching winter a little longer. When spring time comes the blossoms will start to bloom as God intended them to, so embrace each change in your life knowing that He who started the good work in you will bring it all to completion.  Whether we like it or not, the seasons of life will always happen and there is nothing we can do to stop them.  All we can do is deal with them as they occur and have the courage to push past life’s struggles.

Seasons or changes are sometimes hard to accept, but know that God makes all things new in His time.

Joy Can Not Be Contained

Joy!

Joy is a powerful driving force which finds itself hidden in the depths of one’s heart.  It’s more than excitement, more than happiness and more than contentment. While happiness is something we all long for, it’s temporary and sporadic, dependent upon situations and circumstances.  Joy, on the other hand, is something far more permanent, and joy cannot be contained.  It stirs from deep within and manifests itself outwardly, a very evident and noticeable character trait.  Not only is joy noticeable, but it is very contagious.  People love surrounding themselves with joyful people.

You could lose your job and have joy; you could suffer the loss of a loved one and still have joy.  Joy isn’t some phony fake smile you put on your dial to help you cope with life’s struggles. Rather, it is the assurance, knowledge and understanding that comes from knowing God, and knowing Who He is and what He is capable of.

When life beats against you with waves of fury and your entire world feels like it’s falling apart, that’s when you have the peace deep inside to keep you grounded and intact.

I went through a very rough patch last year which drove me to a place of utter misery and what seemed like depression.  Even though what I went through was traumatic and painful, I still had joy – the ability to smile and rely on God’s strength, the ability to depend on people I trust, instead of withdrawing and removing myself from the world.

No matter how dark your life may seem right now, you too can have joy. You too can have that deep inner peace which comes from knowing God.

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Listen To The Music

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The music is all around us, all you have to do is listen.

One of my favourite movies has to be August Rush.  It’s about an orphan boy who discovers the joy of music, in not just a guitar, but everyday life and objects around him.  There are a number of reasons why I enjoy the movie (perhaps it’s because I myself am a musician); but mostly because of the absolute bliss I experience while watching.

Music is liberating and very influential.  It has the power to agitate you to the point of aggression, or help to turn your bad mood into a cheerful one.  Certain music can assist you in becoming calm after a stressful day, or even aid you in falling asleep.

One of my favourite lines from August Rush says: “The music is all around us, all you have to do is listen.”

What is life if you’re going to tread through it being miserable and serious all the time?  The movie serves to remind me that life can be full of colour, love, and beautiful opportunities. Opportunities are all around us just waiting for us to approach and take charge – the question is, are you ready and how badly do you want it?!

I dare you to take a few moments and listen to the music listen to the beauty around you, and allow it to inspire you towards living a life full of joy and excitement.

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