3 ways to get more engaged
How engaged are you with the burning issues that are facing your country?
My home country, South Africa, is well into its young adulthood in...
Things I wished I knew before getting married
Have you ever found yourself in a conversation with a friend where you have uttered the phrase: "I wish somebody had told me, I...
‘All Lives Matter’ (for Dummies)
All lives matter.
Phew, got that out of the way. And it's good to do so early, because any time someone makes a statement like...
I Am An Acquired Taste
I have never been one to consume alcohol, for a number of reasons, but mostly because of the taste. I generally just don't enjoy...
What Makes A Woman Wife Material?
Unlike women, men are fairly simple. Whether we want to listen or not, they'll usually tell us exactly what they need. Give them what...
Online Dating – it’s too easy
It’s too darn easy. Swipe left, swipe right; meh, don’t like his hair. Don’t like her teeth.
“I’m not into rugby guys.”
“I’m not into...
Anticipating the interruption
In the last 24 hours I have been faced with two interruptions.
Interruption the first
My wife Valerie was away for the weekend at the dam...
Am I Alone?
More often than not, victims of abuse feel they deserve every bit of pain and humiliation they have suffered at the hands of their...
Don’t Burn Bridges
Several years ago, I was walking from the supermarket when, in the distance, I heard the sound of footsteps and a voice yelling, 'Excuse...
Marriage should not be a joke
"A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other."
My wife tbV and I attended the marriage...