Moment of Truth
It's okay not to be okay. We live in a society where we often mask the truth of how we really feel. We live...
4 Qualities That Make A Real Man
There have been many changes in the roles of the sexes over the past 60 years. As a result, the expectation of men and...
Tuning Out
Far from the maddening crowd
Have you ever been to someone’s home and there is just a serenity and calm about their house? My house...
Learner Parenting 101
This week my child turned two. Since meeting her 730 days ago, she has set about trying to teach me some Big Lessons. It's...
How to (finally) beat the clock
I find myself very conscious of time. It is definitely something in my nature – not just something I have learnt. If you want to...
Let me give you a tip
The tip that keeps on giving.
By now you have likely heard some version of the story: A waitress at Obz Cafe in Cape Town, Ashleigh...
Things to remember when what’s in your hand isn’t enough
Woody Allen once said
“The talent for being happy is appreciating and liking what you have, instead of what you don’t have.”
It sounds like the...
Women and Relationships: The Inside Scoop For Guys
The issue of legacy is an important thing for the African male. So it makes sense that relationships would be high on his agenda....
How showing love sometimes looks like a pillow
I bought my wife Valerie (aka tbV or the beautiful Val) a pillow yesterday.
I know what you're thinking: not the most romantic move of...











