Letting go of unforgiveness
I've heard it said that holding on to unforgiveness is like drinking a cup of poison and hoping that the other person dies.
Now I...
The power of great friendships
There is significant power in the choosing and maintaining of great friendships. Why? Because your friends are the people you allow to speak into...
Married to your best friend
More than just sex
Research suggests that the key to a long-lasting relationship is not sex, but friendship. A study lead by Dr Laura Vanderbilt...
Aleph Surf International: Changing lives through faith, community and creativity..
Rehgert Van Zyl is the founder and president of Aleph Surf International and he has a desire to serve his nation and people through...
I’m too old for that
I recently saw some friends of mine skateboarding. My first thought was, "I'm too old for that." But then a few days later I...
Held to ransom
In the early 2000s I was living in the UK and a nationwide fuel strike nearly brought the country to a standstill. Within days,...
Leaders Should Never Keep Secrets
This post isn’t about leaders keeping secrets about sexual affairs, mismanaged money, or harassment. That’s bad enough. But this is about leaders who use...
Having healthy boundaries
The Oxford dictionary defines the word 'boundary' as meaning:
A line which marks the limits of an area; a dividing line
(Often boundaries) A...
When Music Speaks
Have you ever noticed the keys on a piano? The colour, the shape, the position, where it fits and where it doesn’t. Imagine this,...
Sliding into Marriage instead of deciding ‘I do’
41 percent of first marriages end in divorce. 60 percent of second marriages end in divorce. 73 percent of third marriages end in divorce...