If there’s one thing I’ve learnt over the years, it’s that your approach to life can not remain the same forever. Things are different today than they used to be; and things will change in future, too.
This is a challenging thought to wrap your head around: We go through many different seasons and changes in life, yet we often struggle to accept that our approach can’t stay the same as the seasons change.
I got engaged recently and life couldn’t be better – but I’ve already come to the realisation that I’m going to have to change a bit. Before I got engaged I was selfish and didn’t really have to take anyone else into consideration – I lived a carefree life and didn’t have to worry about anyone else.
However, I’m in a different stage of life now, and my world is bigger than just me now – I have to look after my fiancé as well. I was reminded of this a few days ago when I planned to go out with the boys while my fiancé was sick at home. Being a guy, I made the wrong choice at first… and I was quickly reminded that it was the wrong choice! Going out unexpectedly used to be part of life – but I’m in a different place now.
You see, you cannot move ahead in life if you keep living the way you’ve always lived. Just like the world around you, your life will continue to change, and if you want to move forward you’ll have to adapt. This doesn’t mean you need to accept everything that comes your way without question, but it does mean you need to change your perspective continually as you readjust your priorities and goals.
Don’t stick with the way you’ve always done things – keep learning, keep stretching, and be ready to adapt your approach to life.
Godspeed.